I’m so fucking tired, mentally and physically! Fighting to make sure G stays safe, J gets proper treatment and to understand how he violated G in the most horrific way, and S gets into a group home, trauma bond with J has caused great distress and distorted thinking for her; for siblings severe mental illness often bond to one another, the abuse and neglect forms the trauma bond. When your brother/sister constantly makes you fear for your own life or the life of your parents because they are Schizophrenic, Reactive Attachment, or severely ODD, you learn to live in survival, this becomes normal to siblings, they learn to survive. And when the chaos is no longer there, their world and reality gets turned upside down.
When J was at TRM, I fought hard to get an evaluation done for him, when we found out about G's rape. J has so many different mental and behavioral health issues, that he has the alphabet soup of diagnosis, trauma is early childhood does that....here is part of J's evaluation, the most important part! NHC has a reputation of helping adolescences like J. J is going to be a hard case for anyone that takes him in. I don't know what the future J will have, I'm trying to get the help that he needs; his behaviors are scary, because he's 15, his brain is still developing.
J was kicked out of NHC from the sexual predator program because of his aggressive behavior towards staff and peers; and prior to NHC, J was at TRM. 2 PRFT’s in nearly 3 years and J still hasn’t improved at all; intense 24 hour of care, family therapy, individual therapy, group therapy, recreational therapy, and school. J refuses to participate in most of the therapies; J don’t like the word no and he will do as he pleases. This is the actually normal with children that have had early childhood trauma, of course, DHHS dirty little secret because they've known for years that putting children with love and stable homes don't help. LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH!
When we found out about G's violent rape by J, we did everything right by the book, but CID at Ft. Jackson SC and the AUSA will not turn this over to S.C. DJJ. Instead we had to hire a lawyer, just to keep G safe; lawyers cost money we don't have. Even today, I can't wrap my head around what CID did; first, CID SA Williams showing up to the Children's Hospital, especially after what he did to B. Secondly, CID purposely said I didn't want help. I didn't want CID SA Williams or any male CID agent, I requested a female CID agent. Lastly, CID SA Williams reported to SCDSS that we still were living on Ft. Jackson, and J was living with us. We actually bought a home and living in Kershaw County, SC and J was at TRM, when we self reported to the stat abuse hotline. CID SA Williams is so corrupt, he can go fuck himself!
The incompetence of Ft. Jackson, SC CID, we have to fight our hardest to keep G safe. We've been on this rollercoaster ride of hell, because DoD, DoJ, AUSA, CID didn't transfer the case to the local authorities.
Here are two articles that people should read, and it explains the shit show that we're are going through. If you read this, please share and keep sharing. I wrote to 7 Senators and all SC US Representatives with documentation and letters.
